7th House in Virgo
Avesalom Podvodny. Houses in Zodiac Signs
A warrior’s virtue is reflected in his boots. This person feels as if enemies are tearing him apart piece by piece. In any case, it is extremely difficult for him to concentrate and keep his weapons in order so they do not rust or lose necessary spare parts. Regarding the image of the enemy, despite careful study, the person cannot precisely identify the enemy’s strongest and weakest points. There is a psychological issue here—understanding that the enemy (and partner) may be entirely different, not resembling the person himself. In antagonism (especially during relationship clarifications), this individual may display an astonishing pettiness uncharacteristic of him (Ascendant in Pisces). Perception of enemies and interaction with them is overly concrete, earthy; there is often a lack of imagination to understand that they too are people with their own emotional, psychological, and even spiritual lives. Unfortunately, the same applies to partners, toward whom the person may, however, be extremely attentive and meticulous to the point of dullness. He will clearly define his share of the joint task with the partner and carry it out just as carefully—if Virgo is at least partially developed—or completely entangle and drown it in confusion and filth otherwise, especially if Virgo is afflicted. With strong activation of the 7th house in Virgo, the partner will also exhibit these qualities, and significant effort is required to prevent the joint endeavor from sinking into insignificant details, especially purely material ones. The balance provided by the 1st house in Pisces, with its synthetic outlook and overall intuition, is helpful. In marriage, this person is ambiguous: at a low level, dull and sloppy, or conversely, imposes supernatural demands for cleanliness and order in the apartment, or endlessly and scrupulously keeps analyzing the relationship, leading to despair. The same qualities may manifest in the marriage partner, but in any case, the key to resolving all problems lies in self-improvement and redirecting demands onto oneself.
Houses in Signs. Oleksandr Kostovych
He is attracted to hardworking, efficient, and demanding partners who manage his practical affairs. In partnerships, he lacks confidence and decisiveness—he never says YES or NO, usually only MAYBE. Rather scattered and disorganized, which irritates partners. He finds it difficult to maintain order, neatness, routine, schedule; he dislikes submitting to others’ rules and instead establishes his own. He chooses intellectual, selfish partners. He is very careful about others’ opinions of his personality and behaves differently with each person, adapting to the interlocutor. He tries to conceal his timidity behind a mask of self-confidence and activity. The slightest criticism deeply wounds him. The same applies to family life, where he completely submits to his wife’s authority while simultaneously imposing high demands for cleanliness and order in the apartment. He enjoys analyzing relationships and is very nitpicky. He marries fully consciously, although he feels no need for either a wife or children. His married life is entirely stable, but his wife lacks sincerity from him. He tends to unselfishly please his wife. It is difficult for him to find a wife possessing all the virtues he seeks. If incompatibility arises in marriage, he rarely divorces. He has the ability to restore broken relationships and reach agreement. He does not understand his enemies and cannot identify their weak and strong points.
Pavlo Globa. Houses in Signs
VIRGO – marriage based on calculation, founded on a sense of responsibility and duty. Ability to accept the partner’s opinion, to be objective. Calm, rational relationships in marriage, free from emotional excesses. Feelings are dry, intellectual. But devotion to home and family compensates for the lack of romance. Family life is filled with household concerns, domestic chores, and stockpiling food for winter. At a low level—boredom and dullness. Possible renewal of a broken marriage with the same partner.
