7th House in Cancer
Avesalom Podvodny. Houses in Zodiac Signs
A military person has two subconscious layers: personal and official. This is a difficult position, as the individual tends to suspect enemies of exceptional cunning, perceiving threats in a highly emotional and painful manner. On the other hand, he himself is capable of exceptionally subtle, deep, and psychologically grounded intrigue, which, especially with harmonious aspects to the 7th house, may well succeed. When afflicted, however, his intrigues will most often entangle him personally, leading to a state of continuous fear that turns into hatred toward the enemy—though, considering the Ascendant in Capricorn, the person is never inclined to express this openly. Yet, when the opportunity arises and whenever possible remaining in the shadows, he will destroy his enemy with the determination of a cardinal sign. In partnerships, this person is silent, sensitive, and cautious; but if things go well, he can be very caring, thoughtful, and even tender—although the Ascendant will naturally lend a certain dryness to his expressions. Nevertheless, overcoming his distrust, especially with Cancer afflicted, is extremely difficult; he always secretly fears an attack on his vulnerable spot, even after years of testing the partner. From his side, he is very demanding of his partner and, if the latter fails to satisfy him in some way, will leave without hesitation—though perhaps with moral and emotional trauma. At a low level, this may manifest as betrayal; at a high level, the person in relationships is, on the contrary, exceptionally self-demanding and completely reliable. With harmonious aspects to Cancer, this individual is capable of creating for his spouse a paradise-like bliss that completely isolates her from society, albeit not without hidden jealousy (the same applies to a woman). However, without working through this placement of the 7th house at home, the person in marriage tends toward vampirism, especially with a strong Cancer (whether harmonious or afflicted), and subtly shifting responsibilities onto the partner without any sign of gratitude.
Houses in Signs. Oleksandr Kostovych
Does not like being in the spotlight. Has a strong emotional attachment to marriage and family. However, his spouse depends on his emotional issues and is susceptible to his influence. He reacts emotionally to public opinion and people’s attitudes. Capable of creating for his wife a cloud of heavenly bliss and attempts to completely isolate her from society due to secret jealousy. Tends to shift part of his responsibilities onto his spouse’s shoulders. If he fails to establish emotional contact with his wife, he shows a tendency toward infidelity. Usually marries late, or may remain unmarried altogether. Does not forgive betrayal or offense. Extremely sensitive and vulnerable, protects himself through emotional asceticism and a mask of dryness. Views marriage as a form of reliable investment that makes life comfortable and stable. Early marriage is dangerous for the individual due to the harmfulness of this arrangement for his health. Marriage for practical reasons, aimed at achieving career goals, is highly probable. May be unhappy in marriage, especially one entered for material considerations. Generally avoids secret relationships or cohabitation, carefully preserving the impeccability of his social status. In partnerships, he is silent, vulnerable, cautious, and can be very thoughtful and caring, though somewhat dry in expression. Secretly fears an attack on his most vulnerable point, even after repeated testing of the partner. Conserves energy due to its scarcity. Becomes ruthless and indifferent toward others when his energy is depleted. Emotional connections with people are difficult; he does not trust them easily. Has good self-control and knows how to suppress his feelings. Rarely reveals his true attitude toward someone. For the sake of a cause, readily sacrifices personal interests. He suspects his enemies of extraordinary treachery and perceives threats in an intensely emotional and painful way. Yet he himself is capable of subtle intrigue. He strives not to express his hatred for enemies openly, but when the chance arises and while remaining in the shadows, he will ruthlessly and decisively destroy his enemy.
Pavlo Globa. Houses in Signs
CANCER – family relationships are deeply emotional, marked by expressions of maternal care. Great love for home and family, sensitivity and tactfulness. Outward gentleness, a display of charm, but inner darkness. Betrayals are possible. Attitude toward marriage is bourgeois. Upon sensing coldness, partners gradually dissolve the union, “cutting the dog’s tail bit by bit.” At a low level – domestic tyranny or quiet adultery.
