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When an astrologer’s client is a neurotic or a hysteric.

Today, my astrological blog will lean more toward astro-psychological themes. We’ll talk about HISTORY and NEUROSIS. Uncle Freud, observing modern society, would undoubtedly say that we are all deeply ill, as we suppress our sexuality due to social propriety, many of us are emotionally unstable, afraid of failure and uncertainty, feel unhappy in personal life, or simply cannot build harmonious, lasting relationships. All of these are signs of neurosis. Or is it all nonsense? After all, we live, work, achieve meaningful things, we’re not homeless or alcoholics. The visible side of many people’s lives appears comfortable and well-packaged—so what could Freud possibly have to do with it?

But if we don’t rush to conclusions and instead reflect deeply on the matter, are Freud’s observations about modern society truly irrelevant? More and more often, working with clients and students, I—as an astrologer—see obvious things: hidden, chronic neuroses prevent people from living in harmony.

When I noticed that not only do clients repeatedly consult on similar topics—such as lack of relationships or problems with self-realization—but also that the majority of clients share similar personal experiences and behavioral patterns in dealing with these issues, I began to wonder: why is this so? Different people, from different cities and countries, worry about the same things, react emotionally in similar ways to difficulties, and keep stepping on the same rakes. And most interestingly—myself and my close ones have experienced similar setbacks in life, and some of them persist even today. Is this a collective form of thinking, group development, or something else?

Since every astrologer is first and foremost an analyst, I began gathering facts to get to the root of the matter. My search led me to the psychology of neuroses. “Oh-ho!” I thought, after studying the topic… It turns out that many of us are neurotics—and I am among them! It’s unpleasant to hear—it almost sounds like an insult…

So, what is neurosis? There are many types of neuroses, the main ones being neurasthenia, obsessive-compulsive neurosis, and hysterical neurosis (hysteria). In scientific terms, these are functional disorders of the central nervous system arising from prolonged nervous stress, leading to nervous exhaustion and various vegetative disturbances: allergies, insomnia, lethargy, sweating, trembling, apathy, heightened emotional sensitivity, fear of losing control over life, intrusive thoughts, and many other manifestations. This is an illness in which the person retains critical awareness of the condition and does not lose the ability to control their behavior. Thus, a curious paradox emerges: there seems to be a mental disorder, yet at first glance, one wouldn’t notice it—so everything seems fine. Let’s say someone is a bit excitable and impulsive, but not psychotic—and that’s good. In reality, however, it’s not okay, because such people need help.

One of the most interesting researchers of neurotics was Karen Horney. I present her classification here and hope that if you recognize any of these traits in yourself, it will make you reflect deeply (see Horney K. Self-Analysis (1942). – Moscow: Academic Project, 2007. – 208 p.). I cite some of them. I hope you don’t suffer from these tendencies J

  • Neurotic need for affection and approval: the need to please and be liked by everyone, to gain their approval; living according to others’ expectations; shifting the center of gravity from oneself onto others, the habit of considering only their desires and thoughts; fear of self-assertion; fear of hostility from others or hostile feelings toward oneself.
  • Neurotic need for a “partner” who will take charge of one’s life: shifting the center of gravity onto a “partner” who is expected to fulfill all life expectations and bear responsibility for everything good and bad; successfully manipulating the “partner” becomes the primary goal; overvaluation of “love,” as it is assumed that “love” solves all problems; fear of being abandoned; fear of loneliness.
  • Neurotic desire for power: the desire to dominate others; compulsive devotion to duty, obligation, responsibility; disregard for other people, their individuality, dignity, feelings, and the desire to subjugate them; presence of destructive elements to varying degrees; submission before any form of power and contempt for weakness; fear of uncontrolled situations; fear of helplessness.
  • Neurotic need to control oneself and others through intellect and foresight: belief in the omnipotence of intellect and reason; denial of the power of emotions and contempt for them; assigning extraordinary importance to prediction and foresight; sense of superiority over others based on the ability to predict; self-contempt for anything that does not conform to the image of intellectual superiority; fear of acknowledging the objective limits of reason; fear of appearing “stupid” or making incorrect judgments. Neurotic need to believe in the omnipotence of will: sense of inner strength derived from belief in the magical power of will; reaction of despair to any frustration of desires; tendency to renounce desires or limit them and lose interest due to fear of “failure”; fear of acknowledging any limitations to absolute will.
  • Neurotic need for social recognition or prestige: literally everything (objects, money, personal qualities, actions, feelings) is evaluated according to its prestige; self-esteem entirely dependent on public recognition; various (traditional or rebellious) ways of provoking envy or admiration; fear of losing a privileged social position (“humiliation”), whether due to external circumstances or internal factors.
  • Neurotic ambition in terms of personal achievement: the need to surpass others not by who you are, but through your accomplishments; self-esteem dependent on how successfully one can be the best—lover, athlete, writer, worker—especially in one’s own eyes, while recognition from others is also important, and its absence causes offense; presence of destructive tendencies (aimed at defeating others), always present though varying in intensity; constant self-driving toward even greater achievements, despite persistent anxiety; fear of failure.
  • Neurotic need for self-sufficiency and independence: the need to never depend on anyone, to resist any influence, or to remain completely unattached, as any closeness implies the danger of subjugation; maintaining distance and separation is the sole source of security; fear of needing other people, affection, closeness, or love.
  • Such strange things happen within the psyche of many of us, and we aren’t even aware of them…

    Thank you for reading to the end.

    Respectfully,

    Astrologer Angelika Zhuravskaya

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