Not everyone knows how to read or use the language of gestures, but even knowing just a few basic meanings and rules of this language gives you an extra advantage in communication, including sexual. Gestures help demonstrate interest, attract attention, suggest the right approach in conversation, and better understand a person, as gestures are often far more expressive and truthful than words.
Let’s look at examples of the most common female techniques for attracting the opposite sex.
Hair — carelessly shaking the hair, hands seemingly moving on their own to adjust a flawless hairstyle, tossing hair off the shoulders and forehead, twirling strands, playing with curls — all these signals indicate interest in a man. Long, loose hair is associated in men’s minds with a sexually active woman who is open to risk, while curls are perceived as an invitation to flirt.
Hips. By caressing your thighs, you signal desire to a man — the slower the movement, the stronger the effect, whether it’s an overt invitation or appears as an innocent act of rubbing in lotion. In any case, the man will be impressed.
Wrists. One of the most erotic gestures, which has a “killing” effect on men, is exposing the back of the wrist. The delicate skin there is associated by men with the appealing skin of a woman’s breasts. So feel free to use bracelets, lace cuffs, and delicate fabrics, and at the right moment, throw the man you like off balance. Enhance the effect with an elegant hand movement, ending with emphasis on the temples, chin, or lips.
Smile. With a smile, you can attract, entice, allure, and express sympathy. On a carefree face, a smile appears spontaneous and charming.
Clothing is one of the key components of seduction. It’s almost the first thing a man notices. It should be elegantly provocative yet feminine. Men are particularly drawn to clothing that tightly hugs a woman’s breasts and features a large number of front buttons. Both elements act on a man as a silent invitation from the woman to free her from her constricting attire.
Crossed arms. This gesture should not be sharp or repelling, but touching, as if asking for protection, for the strong shoulder of a real man. Arms crossed beneath the breasts is the most powerful sexual gesture a woman can make, triggering primal instincts in men.
Leg movements. Crossing the ankles, slowly draping one leg over the other, crossing and uncrossing the legs, slightly parted legs — all these actions evoke in the opposite sex a sense of restrained sexual energy and tension, causing them to forget logic and lose composure. Sitting with one leg tucked under, a woman signals that she feels comfortable and relaxed in the man’s presence. Swaying a shoe on the tips of the toes communicates comfort and trust toward the person in whose direction the toe is pointing.
Gently and playfully, almost unconsciously, stroking cylindrical objects — such as a cigarette, pen, lipstick, or the stem of a wine glass — indicates sexual desire.
Lips. When a woman deliberately applies lipstick in a man’s presence, she subconsciously imitates labia, which swell and turn redder when sexually aroused. The same effect is achieved by using lipstick that visually enhances the fullness of the lips.
Gaze. A highly expressive gesture. With your eyes, you can convey a whole spectrum of interest — from timid curiosity to a bold sexual invitation. An intimate glance — slightly sideways, combined with a smile, or a fleeting glance downward and to the side — means you’re interested and open to getting acquainted. Smiling slightly, lowering your gaze and slowly shifting it aside? This is a signal to the man that you’ve noticed him and are waiting for him to act. A direct, prolonged gaze tells the man he is the only person who interests you in this place and at this moment, and that you’re ready for closer contact.
Voice. And of course, don’t forget the soft, chesty voice, melodious contagious laughter, and slightly parted moist lips.
Probably many readers have already used these gestures to attract male attention, even without realizing it or attributing significance to their actions. However, if you consciously apply these feminine tricks at the right moment, you’ll be able to captivate any man. And who knows — perhaps among those captivated will be your destined partner.
