Sagittarius Woman
To begin with, Sagittarius women, like Sagittarius men, tend to “speak the brutal truth” (which often ends in regret and apologies). Their partners would much prefer to hear slightly embellished stories from time to time. For instance, a guy asking a Sagittarius girl about her vacation will receive a full report, including a list of admirers and everyone she flirted with during her trip. These are independent natures who usually leave the family nest early. Forget about using a commanding tone—such women can only be asked, not ordered, or you’ll face an angry outburst from this fiery woman. By the way, they can’t stand whiners. So it’s occasionally acceptable to say something like: “Just try doing that and I’ll twist your neck!”—which might actually produce a positive effect.
She can easily confuse you, though these are minor issues—she’s even better at confusing herself. This happens because she often mistakes friendship for love, and vice versa—love for friendship. Sometimes she’ll do something to her partner that inevitably leads to a breakup, then spend the night crying into her pillow, wondering: “How could this happen?” Perhaps her partner was offended when she refused to see him in the evening because she was expecting a man for a talk, forgetting to mention carelessly that this “man” was actually her older sister’s husband. Because of such behavior, she might easily earn the label of being a “cold and heartless woman” (even though she’s born under a fiery sign and cannot truly be cold). And as a result, she may end up an old maid.
But such a prospect won’t scare Sagittarius women. They have more than enough interests and, regardless of the reasons, are capable of enjoying life. Considering their disregard for public opinion and fear of marriage, one might conclude that romance and sentimentality don’t exist in them. This would be a mistaken conclusion. Usually, melancholic movies bring them to tears, they are deeply moved by poetry, and it’s entirely possible that they carefully keep the letters you’ve sent them, as well as the theater tickets from the first show you attended together.
Among actresses, one can find Sagittarius women; generally, they succeed in show business. And when they grow tired of Jupiter’s bright spotlight, they settle comfortably into family life. Though not particularly domestic, they carry out traditional household duties, even if they sometimes find them boring. Here, one should apply the “remedy” used with a Sagittarius employee—give her room to breathe and allow her some time to wander freely.
Ruled by the planet Jupiter, Sagittarius women are idealists. Naturally, she won’t tell you that she’s loved your image since childhood, that there was a series of mistakes—she mistook others for you. And then you appeared—she instantly recognized you and immediately offered you her heart and hand, so you could lead her toward the stars.
Sagittarians are hardly considered passionate parents. Small babies don’t interest them much, although they meticulously follow all newborn care rules and, though not particularly skilled, still manage diapers and pacifiers. As children grow older, their interest in them increases. And, as a rule, they become good companions to their children. Once they’ve moved past the initial sense of heightened responsibility, mothers become more like kind older sisters who actively join in children’s games, sometimes turning the house into a circus. Adoring such a mother, children won’t fall asleep until they’ve received another one of her fairy tales with a happy ending.
Sagittarius Man
Without wishing to disappoint you, it should still be said that Sagittarius can have several (or rather, many) quirks. He’s the one who might gallop through city streets on horseback. Generally, winning over such a man requires certain efforts and manners. First, pull him down from his horse and lead him out of the circus crowd. What he strives for cuts into his time for family life. You can easily become infected by Sagittarius’s untamed enthusiasm and curiosity. Sometimes he goes abroad for some personal matter. You might feel lifted up to the clouds and left hanging there due to his simple forgetfulness.
Usually, Sagittarius is surrounded by a crowd. Here’s another obstacle—getting close to him will require elbowing your way through. Pessimists don’t suit him, as he is a tremendous optimist. His optimism is so strong that even an enemy’s offense might not touch him. This optimism, however, carries danger, as it resembles blind faith. Blind faith isn’t necessarily bad, but due to his naive trust, he often ends up in trouble.
It’s even easier to land in trouble when he’s constantly rushing around with his eyes lifted to the sky, chasing lofty goals—targets that can only be reached by those possessing courage. You can’t call Sagittarius a dreamer. His dreams always contain logic and interest—though they are somewhat impractical and untamed. When he senses the possibility of achieving a goal, he paints it in all the vivid colors his imagination can produce. Inevitably, someone appears who disapproves of progressive ideas and tries to crush them before they have a chance to prove themselves.
Thanks to his imagination, he may “acquire” a heap of troubles, but fortune always comes to his aid in time. His luck sometimes seems unfair. Thus, despite possible blows of fate, he recovers instantly. This also applies to love. He has a negative attitude toward dishonesty, which is why he’s surrounded by many friends and well-wishers. In a person, he primarily seeks genuine value. Of course, he has enemies, but far fewer than other signs.
People who hear his remarks might get offended, but this feeling quickly passes, as they understand he had no ill intent. Sagittarius does have his flaws—carelessness and tactlessness. But! Never intentional cruelty. His speech can be compared to a symbolic arrow. He may say exactly what he thinks. And he might pretend (if you’ve fallen in love with him) that he doesn’t understand your feelings. Also, at your first meeting, he might offend you by saying with a direct gaze that you’re the kind of woman worthy of being a mistress. Then, when you’re ready to confront him, he’ll adopt an innocent expression, explaining what he meant by that. You’ll hear that in past times, a man was forced to marry a woman only from his circle, who could easily be unattractive, and therefore, the most beautiful women were chosen as mistresses. After this, realizing you’ve received an unusual compliment about your beauty, you’ll stop feeling offended.
The impression from a Sagittarius man is guaranteed. Would any other man study history? You might reach the sad conclusion that you’ll become the companion of an intellectual. That’s a mistake. You might become the lover of an intellectual, though you probably won’t realize it right away. He’ll rush forward at the speed of sound, leaving you behind as a heartbroken woman. Of course, not every woman would accept such an explanation, but you can certainly remain friends.
This is food for thought—have you grasped the degree of danger in being close to a Sagittarius? There’s no wolf visible in his naive smile. Sagittarius’s love life is very superficial, and he’s honest about it. Did he ever say you were a candidate for marriage? He spoke of a lover. He enjoys light relationships.
His honesty. If you’ve already realized how often love oaths turn out to be false, then Sagittarius’s openness will probably appeal to you. You might even listen without objection to his stories about his past lovers. Hiding his true feelings in marriage is unacceptable to him. Sometimes he’s forced to go to the registry office (usually the proposal comes from the woman). But in such cases, he’ll do everything possible to avoid marriage. If she manages to catch him in time and he decides that if she suits him in one way, she might suit him in others—he’ll marry. This usually signals an imminent divorce.
Most women misinterpret Sagittarius men’s attitude toward them. They give their relationship a more serious character than it actually has. They dream of strong bonds while he dreams of light relationships, possibly even platonic ones. But thanks to the aforementioned luck, he finds a way out of difficult situations. His love for flirting cannot be denied, but he’s not thinking only about sex. He’s thinking about variety. Once he notices a woman becoming attached, he may turn the relationship into a joke.
Most Sagittarians are accused of their sin—looking at every pretty girl. This irritates him, as in his opinion, it’s simply his friendly attitude toward all people. If you’re a sensible woman, forget about jealousy and suspicion. He must be free to stay near you. No unnecessary questions or threats that you’ll leave him. Better imagine right away how delighted he’ll be.
If you see life through the same eyes as he does, you can expect him to put a ring on your finger. With mutual honesty, flying kites together will be enjoyable. And don’t think about their fate after landing on the ground. Exactly so—give him everything he wants and be the woman he sees you as. Let him channel your energy, take up sports, conquer mountain peaks. Be generous and kind, don’t quarrel every evening, and at the same time, subtly make it clear that you won’t be entirely at his disposal—that you’re also a free spirit.
Don’t become an obstacle on the path of his ideas. Find your own occupation while he’s busy launching his arrows into invisible distances. And then it’s entirely possible that one evening you’ll hear him say that you possess many qualities he’d like to see in a woman. And if he reaches such a state, then you should also openly declare that you see in him everything a man should have and that it’s time to make a decision. At the same time, emphasize the strength of your love, strong enough to go to the registry office, but with the condition—that you retain a certain freedom he must not interfere with. And ask him casually when the stork plans to visit you.
After marriage, you’ll notice the absence of unpleasantness with his relatives. This sign is indifferent to family ties. The foreign concept that one should love relatives who don’t deserve love is alien to them. Keep a suitcase ready, as you’ll face countless travels. Occupy yourself with something, allowing him to remain free. Try to hold him back—he’ll break down the door. He’ll always inform you about his wrongdoings. Get used to his frankness and keep reminding yourself of his still strong love for you, instead of gathering rumors. Approach human emotions with his practicality. And you’ll be surprised by the strength of love growing on honest ground.
Due to his attraction to sports, watching sports broadcasts together is quite possible. If you enjoy people and are charming enough, you can expect social outings under his wing. Your talents will be a source of pride for him—try to cultivate them. Keep developing, read, be ready to fight for his cause. You might discover some extravagance in him.
These are risk-takers. By the way, thanks to this, they’re generous with your expenses. You’ll need to get used to potentially harsh and tactless criticism directed at you. His love for children grows as they mature. He enjoys doing sports with them, going on hikes. He feels closer to boys than girls. And he’s more of a friend to his children than a father. His actions aren’t always wise, as he thinks with both mind and heart. He stumbles—falls—rises—tries to start anew—such is his life. From him, you’ve received a great gift—honest love, for which you can forgive him almost everything.
