“In big cities, people most often suffer from loneliness. That’s why various communication sites and forums are so popular now. Some people literally live on them. From an excess of superficial contacts, we develop a false sense of fulfillment. But inside, there’s a real hunger!”
These four types of feminine archetypes were described in her book “The Circle of Female Power: The Energies of the Elements and the Secrets of Seduction” by Larisa Renar, Candidate of Psychological Sciences, practicing psychologist.
Women start and win. First, she notices an attractive target, sends him a signal (a smile, a long gaze, a casual touch). The man appreciates her attention and attractiveness, which gives him courage. The man takes the first step!
What do men say?
According to statistics, men first notice Queens—those sharp, cool women with high intellect and impeccable manners. What can you do—she’s the most valuable and hard-to-get (and therefore desirable!) trophy for any true hunter.
But time passes, and in men’s consciousness, old fairy tales resurface—those with Gerda and mermaids, Little Red Riding Hoods and Cinderellas. Thus, the innocent gaze, enthusiastic laughter, and unstoppable zest for life of the Girl evoke no less sympathy in men.
However, childhood ideals give way to the image of a predatory odalisque, the best concubine in the harem, a nymph and a wild creature. Therefore—it’s time to enchant a man in the image of the Mistress.
And lastly, what truly wins men’s affection is what kind of Hostess you are. (Ladies, pay attention: ironed shirts and clean sheets, a spotless kitchen and your culinary masterpieces—are the last things you should focus on when building relationships with the opposite sex!). Unfortunately, many start with a man’s stomach…
Exercise 1: “What’s hindering your relationships with the opposite sex?”
You’ll need a voice recorder or an attentive conversation partner who will listen carefully and note down the key points of your story.
Choose a time. Get comfortable. Tell seven love stories from your life.
Analyze: How did you behave? How did he? How did it all begin, develop, and end? What was special?
Conclusion. Find common patterns in all seven scenarios and adjust your future behavior accordingly.
Rooted in childhood
Whether a successful businessman or a serious businesswoman, an influential official or a charming mistress of fate—no matter who a person becomes, they always bring echoes of their favorite childhood fairy tales into their life. Accordingly, they also choose their partner based on a fairy-tale archetype. Thus, Snow Queens coexist with Romantics, Cinderella lives soul to soul with the Eternal Prince, and Flower Girl quarrels and reconciles with the Hunter.
“Family is the place where we are accepted no matter what, understood and forgiven!”
Exercise 2: “Identifying your core love story in life”
The starting point is the same: a voice recorder or a conversation partner, deep attentiveness.
Tell your favorite fairy tale from a single character’s perspective. You can change the plot as you like, add new characters and trials. Write it all down.
Conclusion. Carefully examine the initial situation you constantly repeat in life. What is the main problem? How does the plot unfold? Where does the solution or help come from, and who brings it? What does the resolution lead to?
“Dress every day as if for a celebration, and celebration will quickly come into your life!”
Exercise 3: “Life script”
You won’t need conversation partners here. Be alone with yourself. You may play calm classical music. Breathe deeply and consciously. Fully relax your body and feel warmth within it.
Imagine you’re in a theater. The first act begins, then the second, the third. Who are the actors? How do you see yourself? How does each play their role? At the end, the Director comes onstage. What does he say to you? And what do you say to him? Write down all your feelings on a sheet titled “My Old Script.”
Now sit down again and focus. The same setting, the same actors, but the play is slightly different. Clearly imagine a bright, spectacular performance with a happy ending. This is your new script. Enjoy the moment of happiness, the audience’s applause, the bouquets of flowers at your feet, and thank the Universe for what you already have!
Now open your eyes and sincerely smile. What step toward a new, happy life will you take today?
“We’re all a bit afraid of other people. But try simply loving them. Anyone. Everyone has something beautiful and pure, a part of the Universe, a divine part!”
Dear ladies! Ladies and Primadonnas, Princesses and Huntresses, Dreamers and Wise Owls! Who lives inside each of you? Exactly—Beauty. Because she’s also Intelligence.
And so—let’s change, let’s welcome spring, let’s enchant men, ‘sew sundresses and light cotton dresses’—and again and again lose our heads in love. Simply because Love is the highest truth on Earth!
