Moon in Gemini

"How does your child perceive the mother?"
Your child perceives the mother as very talkative, mentally active, changeable, and elusive.
"What does he need in order to feel secure and safe?"
Changeability—this is the key word for your child. Your little bird can be soaring through the air one moment and suddenly land with a cheerful thud on the ground the next. Emotional reactions are quick, varied, and based more on what he thinks than on what he feels. He will readily tell you about all his problems, as he has a greater ability than others to verbally express how he reacts to situations or people. In response, it’s best for you to use logic and reasoning to help him work through what’s troubling him.
This child finds security in knowledge, in satisfying a very lively and practically insatiable curiosity. He thrives in an environment of variety, but becomes nervous, upset, or simply bored when his space for movement is restricted. Take him where things are happening—where he can observe your activities: he will be a much calmer child. Introduce him to other people; he needs to be around others. A vibrant, flexible preschool setting, where little friends appear, will benefit both him and you.
Most likely, this child won’t want to sit still for prolonged cuddling; quick hugs on the go are more in his style. The best way to establish gentle physical contact with such a child is to lie down beside him, read a good bedtime story, talk about it, point out certain things, and explain them.
This child needs parents who are able to feed his curiosity, appreciate his speed, adapt—without frustration—to the fluctuations of his mood, and rejoice with him in life’s endless variety.