Today it is important to perceive others’ opinions separately from yourself. Other people’s remarks may appear unexpectedly. Moreover, they can be inaccurate and offensive, but they contain clues about where we present ourselves with an inflated self‑esteem. If you internally manage the urge to take offense or respond in kind, you will feel your power to shift from subjective to objective perception of reality.
On this day it is dangerous to waste energy on quarrels or gossip. In doing so you diminish the sensitivity of your heart and lose empathy even for yourself. Yet it is important not to exalt yourself above others in the ability to restrain yourself at a critical