In many cases, the reason for a wife’s pickiness is the lack of attention she receives.
A woman loves to be praised. She craves compliments, seeks love and adoration, gifts, and attention. Shower her with praise, show your admiration, and express approval of all her actions. Compliment her, use the warmest epithets in her honor, but do not overdo it—do not flatter in vain. Flattery is offensive. Encouraged by such attention and thoughtfulness, a wife will reward you with love and gratitude. Of course, there are other types of women who are not inclined to care for themselves but instead suppress, offend, humiliate their husbands, and crush their male dignity. They try to force their husbands to conform to a specific behavioral stereotype. There is no faster way to drive a man away than such behavior. Once, a thirty-year-old athlete and handsome man—a forensic pathologist—came to see me. He had been married for six years, with no children by mutual agreement (they had arranged their household). He complained about his wife, who had turned him into a henpecked husband. The dominant role in their relationship belonged to his wife, who ultimately drove him to infidelity and marital unfaithfulness. I asked, “What is your wife’s name, and her date of birth?”
He replied—“Cobra.” I did not hear any other name. But according to the Chinese zodiac, his wife was born in the Year of the Snake, while he was born in the Year of the Tiger. Synastry in this union is absent if we consider compatibility by birth date, because the Snake and the Tiger are karmic enemies rather than allies. This indicates that these people will oppose each other throughout their lives. The parents of this married couple were against their marriage, and the children married “to spite” not their parents but themselves… Such a marriage cannot be saved. The couple realized their mistake in time, and let them build new relationships where both will be happy. A husband and wife should stop nitpicking, constantly searching for each other’s minor mistakes and flaws. Let each of them pay attention to the other and admire their partner’s professional, intimate, and simply human qualities.
IF A MAN OFTEN HAS A “HEADACHE”
and falls into a sullen mood, expressing anger toward his wife because everything she does is wrong! From a psychological point of view, in terms of compatibility, he is committing marital infidelity and, as justification, chooses the Sicilian defense—an attack as a form of defense. Marital infidelity in this case is a mental merging with everything negative and destructive. If a man silently resents his wife and is filled with hostility toward her, it means he is cheating on her. He is not faithful to his marital vows. If other causes and disagreements arise in the family, dialogue is the key—even in reasonable families. With its help, the couple can reach mutual understanding. A man is ready to turn his anger into kindness, “swallow his sharp remarks,” become attentive, kind, and polite, while the wife should forget about misunderstandings. A man can overcome all disagreements with praise, cast out bad thoughts from his mind, and reassess the value of the person dear to him—his wife. In this case, he will not only mend his relationship with his wife but also with his colleagues at work. After all, a person who is not at peace with themselves vents their anger on innocent people. Transform, rebuild, strive to enter harmony, accumulate peace, and you will ultimately gain peace of mind, strong health, harmony in the family, success in business, and money will come to you! If you have any questions, feel free to call Ruslan—he will gladly answer all of them.
