There once was a girl named Masha who dreamed of finding her betrothed and living happily with him until the end of her days. In the evenings, she would immerse herself in reading medieval romances about brave knights, where everything was perfect, and at night she would quietly cry into her pillow because yet another of her “princes” turned out to be a frog. He was the ideal of her dreams: brave, decisive, intelligent, and generous. With him, she felt as safe as behind a stone wall. But when the candy-and-bouquet period gave way to everyday life, the man changed for the worse.
Masha became disillusioned with men, suffered greatly, and could not understand why she was so unlucky. I hope she reads this article.
So, why do we choose the wrong people? Why do we end up disappointed in a partner? After all, at first, he seemed so perfect. How can we avoid making the wrong choice? The Descendant (Dsc), also known as the cusp of the 7th house, in your natal chart can help answer these questions. All you need is your date and time of birth, as well as the date and time of birth of your potential partner.
First, you need to clarify and clearly define your ideal. The Descendant of your natal chart will help you formulate the key qualities that matter most to you.
The Descendant represents the image of the most suitable partner for long-term relationships. Depending on the zodiac sign in which this point is located, you can learn a lot about your ideal partner.
Descendant in Aries: the partner values activity, courage, bravery, and a desire to protect.
Descendant in Taurus: the partner values patience, gentleness, friendliness, and determination.
Descendant in Gemini: the partner values intellect, erudition, and sociability.
Descendant in Cancer: the partner values sensitivity, modesty, frugality, and domesticity.
Descendant in Leo: the partner values generosity, honesty, straightforwardness, and romance.
Descendant in Virgo: the partner values intelligence, thoroughness, practicality, neatness, and orderliness.
Descendant in Libra: the partner values balance, tact, diplomacy, fairness, and a sense of beauty.
Descendant in Scorpio: the partner values mystery, magnetism, sexuality, jealousy (as a display of feelings), and determination.
Descendant in Sagittarius: the partner values optimism, a good sense of humor, altruism, the ability to distract and entertain, and a love of travel.
Descendant in Capricorn: the partner values diligence, thriftiness, foresight, and stability.
Descendant in Aquarius: the partner values warmth, devotion, non-confrontational nature, originality, and inventiveness.Descendant in Pisces: the partner values refinement, tenderness, devotion, fame, and the ability to empathize sincerely.
Now that you have clearly and distinctly seen the previously blurred contours of your future partner, you can consider yourself almost found! In any endeavor, the main thing is to clearly see the goal!
The next step is to analyze the natal chart of the representative of the opposite sex. To do this, you need to find out their date of birth. Usually, this is not a problem. Men and women love to discuss their horoscopes on dates, so they happily share their birth dates.
There are plenty of online projects for creating natal charts. Choose one you like. First of all, pay attention to the “ruler” of the horoscope—the Ascendant (Asc), also known as the cusp of the 1st house. The zodiac sign here determines the first impression of a person. However, as we know, first impressions are often deceptive. So, we calculate the planet that rules the Ascendant. For example, the ruler of Aries is Mars, of Gemini is Mercury, of Cancer is the Moon, and so on. We then examine the condition of this ruler. The traits of this sign will manifest more strongly in a person’s behavior during closer contact. If this ruler is in the sign or element you need (for example, your Descendant is in Aries, so the ruler should be in Aries or a fire sign), then the emotional component of their character suits you.
As the saying goes, talk alone won’t fill your stomach. So, you should also look at which sign Mars is in, as it governs how a person acts, works, and cares for others. Ideally, it should be in the sign of your Descendant.
If, according to your Descendant, you need a Capricorn—a serious, reliable partner—but the man seems a bit frivolous, don’t rush to conclusions. Get to know him better, find out his date and time of birth. If the ruler of the Ascendant or Mars is in Capricorn or an earth sign, you’ll soon see eye to eye.
Let’s return to our heroine, Masha. Her Descendant is in Aries, so she is drawn to strong and courageous partners. It seemed she had made the right choice, as her partner had an Ascendant in Aries. In other words, he made a good first impression, and Masha liked him. However, the ruler of his Ascendant, Mars, was in Scorpio, which did not suit her at all. When they got closer, his jealousy and suspicion began to weigh on her.
Let me give an example of a successful union of a famous (and, I must admit, my beloved) Hollywood couple.
Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn have been happily together for 30 years, and there’s no sign of them parting ways.
Let’s examine their natal charts to understand why they stay together.
Goldie Hawn was born on November 21, 1945, at 9:20 AM in Washington, USA.
Her Ascendant is in the fiery Sagittarius, and the ruler of Sagittarius for a daytime birth is Neptune, which is in the air sign Libra. In public, Goldie Hawn gives the impression of a very energetic, cheerful, positive, and slightly frivolous woman. With close people, this energy calms down. With them, she is quite calm and level-headed.
Her Descendant, the actress, is in Gemini. What she values most in men is an intellectual component, the ability to hold a conversation on various topics, a broad outlook, and sociability. With such a partner, she feels most comfortable, at ease, and interested. And only with him can she forgive many things and overlook flaws.
Does Kurt Russell meet these requirements?
He was born on March 17, 1951, at 10:42 AM in Springfield, USA.
His Ascendant is in airy Gemini, and his Descendant is in Sagittarius. The ruler of Gemini for a daytime birth is Proserpina. It is also in the air element Libra (whereas in Goldie Hawn’s chart, the ruler of the Ascendant is not in a fire sign, but Mars is in the fiery Leo).
As we can see, the mutual requirements of the partners are met, which has formed the foundation for such a long and stable relationship.
I repeat, only the foundation! Many other important factors in a couple’s horoscope depend on other key elements: the positions of the Sun, Moon, inter-chart connections, and, of course, the aspects between the planets of the partners in each specific synastry.
One more important point. If the Ascendant is in the last degrees of any sign, and the entire 7th house falls in another sign, you should consider that. Compare the descriptions for the signs (see above) and decide which suits you better. I have such a situation in my chart: my Descendant is in the last degrees of Capricorn, and the entire 7th house is in Aquarius. The qualities of Capricorn do not appeal to me in the least (my father is a Capricorn, so I’ve had enough of that). In my partner, I chose an Aquarius Sun (but that’s another story).
I wish all readers to meet their ideal partner.
