“How does your child perceive their mother?”
Your child sees their mother as practically inaccessible and a very unusual woman. Mom seems to them a free-thinking person who loves all things new and highly intellectual.
“What does your child need in order to feel secure and safe?”
Emotionally, Aquarius tends to be cold and detached. However, your child may be open and friendly toward everyone they meet. They love the world, love their friends, love you—but it’s better for none of you to get too close. You intrude upon their aura, take away their air. They suffocate. Coldness arises—or they simply withdraw to seek new friends. They will return later, perhaps with joyful greetings, and stay—until you suffocate them again. The key is not to impose too many of your own standards or conventions upon them.
This child needs to be themselves, unique, not who others want them to be. They need a sphere in which they can be unconventional: this could be their clothing style, chosen activities, or their own ideas and philosophy.
Your child always has a bit of rebellion in them. Allow them to rebel against something else, but not against you. Of course, there are certain standards they must follow. But you’ll resolve the most important issues more successfully if you’re willing to compromise on less significant ones.
You’ll communicate more effectively with your child by using a rational and intellectual approach rather than an emotional one, as they feel uncomfortable with emotional displays and may be intolerant of those who lose control. Stay calm and composed.
(Various sources for a child’s horoscope)
The Moon in Aquarius is the least “emotional” placement of the Moon. All feelings are under strict control. Intellect takes precedence. Such children always think before doing anything. You cannot reach them through emotions or feelings. When other people’s emotions spill out, a “Moon in Aquarius” child will simply feel out of place. These children need to be taught that people are different, and not everyone can control their emotions. They need to become more compassionate and learn to calmly accept the emotions of those around them.
Children with the Moon in Aquarius often have unconventional thinking: they readily accept new ideas and frequently demonstrate an original outlook on life. They prefer to follow their own path. These children love to experiment and desire freedom in everything. They want to do what they want, when they want. If deprived of freedom or even restricted, they may show considerable stubbornness. It’s quite likely that others will consider them somewhat eccentric.
They are noble by nature and inclined to care for others on an almost societal scale. These children can be called philanthropists, though their good intentions do not always find practical application. They love applause and any form of approval from others. Any praise holds great significance for them. These children want the whole world to value them. Approach this wisely: suggest that achieving worldwide success is possible—if they direct their energies to serving the world and creating a “heaven on Earth.” The only nuance: it’s important to show them goals that are truly attainable.
For children with this Moon placement, friends occupy one of the most important places in life. They generally enjoy being among people and derive pleasure from any kind of group activity. They will gladly join various clubs and associations to share their thoughts and ideas with others. They hold high ideals and strive to make the world a better place. To prevent your child from experiencing too many setbacks, teach them to be gentler, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and respond calmly to criticism.
Anything unusual and irrational fascinates these children. They enthusiastically read science fiction, take a serious interest in astrology, hypnosis, and dream interpretation. Anything related to the Future captures their attention, as they themselves are representatives of a new era! They passionately desire to try everything new. Stimulate their naturally sharp minds by providing opportunities. They enjoy visiting natural history museums and computer expos.
No matter how dissatisfied you are with your child’s behavior, hide your feelings and never show anger—your actions must be logical. Such a child simply won’t respond to parental emotions or impulsive actions, and you will achieve no results. Always think before speaking or acting. And if you do lose your temper and lose control, the best thing to do afterward is explain to the child that not everyone can control their emotions.
Children with the Moon in Aquarius will invariably want to help everyone. Teach the child to help themselves first, and only then will they be able to help others. Their constant desire to improve the world will bear fruit—they will work selflessly for the benefit of society. And your role is simply to teach them not to forget their own family amidst their lofty aspirations and critically important causes. Life with such children can sometimes be difficult, but the reward for your struggles will be warm affection.
(Samantha Davis. Child Astrology: The Key to Understanding a Child’s Psychology.)
Oh, how much I like you!
But don’t hold me:
Without light and freedom, I
Could not live even a day!
Emotionally, Aquarius tends to be cold and detached. However, your child with the Moon in Aquarius may be open and friendly toward everyone they meet. They love the world, love their friends, love you—but it’s better for none of you to get too close. You intrude upon their aura, take away their air. They suffocate. Coldness arises—or they simply withdraw to seek new friends. They will return later, perhaps with joyful greetings and hugs, and stay—until you suppress them again. What’s the essence? Don’t be possessive and don’t try to impose too many of your own standards or conventions on this child.
This child needs to be themselves, unique, not who others want them to see. They need a sphere where they can be unconventional. This could be their clothing style, the activities they choose, or the ideas and philosophy they follow. Whatever your expectations, your child will thrive by acting, at least partially, in their own distinct way. If you understand them and give them space for this, it will become much easier for you to do everything necessary to establish the best emotional foundation before their encounter with the world and to protect their feelings like water. For a child with the Moon in Aquarius, allow them to rebel against something else, but not against you. Of course, there are certain standards they must follow. But you’ll resolve the most important issues more successfully if you’re willing to compromise on less significant ones. Eccentricity in clothing, for example, is merely external. Skipping school is far more serious.
You’ll communicate more successfully with your child by using a rational and intellectual approach rather than an emotional one. They feel uncomfortable with emotional expressions. This does not mean they hide their feelings. They might tell you what they “feel,” meaning what they “think.” But they may be intolerant of those who lose control. Stay cool-headed.
(Maria Kay Sims. Your Charming Child.)
