Your child hates disorder and any kind of conflict and will go to great lengths to avoid them. The most important thing for him is peace and order. He is unlikely to openly argue with you about any issues that matter to him. This child will politely listen and may even do what you want if it does not seriously violate his personal preferences. But he has his own individual opinions and views, so don’t be surprised if this sweet child, whom you thought agreed with you, eventually chooses a different path of thought and action. Your child believes in equality and fairness. But the search for balance can manifest as indecisiveness when choosing between two options, each with its advantages. He wants to “have his cake and eat it too” and may waver between two decisions until your patience runs out. If he asks for your opinion when choosing between two possibilities, pick one for him. (He may later choose the other, but that’s fine. At least you’ll shorten the painful period of wavering before the decision.)
Appearance is very important to your child. He will like to look good and be surrounded by beautiful things. That’s why he will find it difficult to save pocket money if he has set his sights on some pretty little thing.
Friends are always important to a Libra. He has a much higher than average need to be with other people, but he will have one or two special friends with whom he can share almost everything. You should encourage your child to engage in any form of art or music, as Libras derive pleasure from artistic pursuits and may achieve notable mastery in their chosen art form in the future.
Children born under this sign are charming and tactful. In the future, they can expect great success in society. Such people are sometimes described as “fluttering like a butterfly.” They are friendly, sociable, usually in a good mood, and very eager to please everyone. The latter is very important to them. The problem with Libras is that they want to be charming to absolutely everyone. This trait can seem quite unattractive; some may see it as a desire to flatter and accommodate, to avoid conflict at all costs. But Libras simply cannot tolerate disagreements and crave harmony. They can be indecisive, hesitant, and susceptible to outside influence. They can be gullible, especially at a young age. Because Libras are so eager for popularity, try to teach your child not to sacrifice principles for it, as it is better to be loved for who she truly is.
These children are always ready to help others and inspire those around them to do the same. Libras are sometimes called the peacemakers of the zodiac. It’s no wonder that many people born under this sign choose professions as lawyers or attorneys. They know how to work with people and enjoy it. You will find many of them on the pages of “Who’s Who.”
If your little one does not quite match the picture described above, then you are dealing with another facet of this sign. Such people have strong will and the ability to dominate. Libras enjoy not so much the content of an argument as the argument itself; they are drawn to intellectual combat! Many famous generals and strategists were born under this sign.
Libras have high demands and a striving for perfection, which can sometimes make life unbearable for those around them. Their positive traits include refinement, modesty, neatness, and nobility. Such children prefer, or rather need, a beautiful, refined environment. They feel better and are more willing to engage if peace, harmony, and beauty surround them.
Libra children have good taste, appreciate culture, and prefer all forms of refined art. Such children have a creative, artistic nature. They have a developed sense of color and form. Help them develop more practical ingenuity.
Those born under the sign of Libra value human relationships, so it’s no surprise if they seek your support and approval. Try to teach your child to act independently. Even more important is to instill discipline in him: he must be able to start and finish a task! It is equally important to cultivate a sense of responsibility—otherwise, your child may grow up to be spoiled and have a hard time in life.
The best understanding with your little one will come when he engages in something with you or in the company of friends. Libra children do not like dirty work, so choose an activity for your child where he can express his sense of beauty.
In the human body, Libra rules the kidneys and the excretory system. Venus presides over this sign, so the main feeling in the soul is love. Children born under this sign are very affectionate; they need to pour out their love onto someone and receive adequate reciprocation. They are generous and magnanimous but want to be appreciated for it.
Libras are very oriented toward the opinions of others. Your home will always be full of guests, so parents, keep that in mind! Libra children love gatherings and parties.
You will need to teach your child to choose friends carefully. This is important because the environment means so much to him. He needs an ideal: a positive, honest person with high principles to look up to. Later, such children are often cruelly disappointed by the shattering of their idol and the collapse of their illusions.
The best way to raise little Libras is to speak to them calmly, relying on logic and arguments. Make sure they understand you. Be calm, tactful, and sensible. Always remain objective: Libras have a highly developed sense of justice.
These children react extremely negatively to any manifestation of rudeness, vulgarity, or dishonesty. Ask the child for help, offer to discuss certain situations together, and praise his ideas. In controversial cases, try to find a compromise so that the child feels: together, you are truly capable of finding a way out of any situation.
A real punishment for little Libras can be a ban on talking on the phone or a refusal to host another party. Remember that opposing the child with force or rudeness will only result in the same behavior in return. Libras reflect any attitude like a mirror. Undoubtedly, the child will prefer kind feelings and mutual respect.
Children born under the sign of Libra are romantic by nature, sometimes even prone to idealism. They are generous and tolerant, with a broad outlook. Sometimes Libras become obsessed with the idea of fighting for justice. Help your child choose the right goals so that his time and energy are not wasted but used for good.
Those born under the sign of Libra can be compared to Don Quixote! They have a highly developed sense of justice, but in putting it into practice, Libras can show a clearly excessive zeal. They are easily deceived, and then they will expend their passion on unworthy goals. Libra children are very important. When faced with the need to choose between two undesirable options, they will never compromise in favor of one but would rather refuse altogether.
Now you understand that your little one is a wonderful combination of character traits. If you understand him, dealing with him will be easy and pleasant. Such a child prefers a rich life, and I am sure that those around him will never be bored. Enjoy every day—your little one will help you with that!
(Samantha Davis. Child Astrology. The Key to Understanding a Child’s Psychology.)
