“I can do it myself!” – this might be one of the first phrases you hear when your child begins to speak. Don’t argue with it, and if possible, don’t interfere – unless, of course, he is attempting something genuinely dangerous. Scraped knees are not fatal, and a small lost battle can even be beneficial for his soul. Scorpio is capable of exploring, digging, persisting, and striving with an intensity unique to him until he achieves what he desires. He is a natural skeptic who will never take your word or anyone else’s at face value.
Your little Scorpio will likely be a “quiet type” or a loner who won’t let you know everything he’s thinking. Secrecy and solitude are very important to him, and you must especially respect this. But don’t assume you can keep many of your secrets from him. He possesses a legendary “sixth sense” – the ability to detect something beyond the ordinary. He won’t rest until that unusual or hidden thing is uncovered.
In his likes and dislikes, your child is a person of extremes: either he loves someone or something, or he doesn’t – he doesn’t recognize half-measures. Although your child can love deeply and be extremely loyal, anyone who betrays him will never regain his trust again. Depending on the level of harmony, the strong will of this child can bring you either joy or conflict. You need to learn to respect your child’s decisions and profound emotions.
Your child may be drawn to challenge, risk, or adventurous activities. He will be very independent, and fear will rarely hold him back.
This little detective, skeptical and perceptive, will dig and investigate until what is hidden is revealed and the mystery is solved. He will likely enjoy reading, especially about mysterious subjects. These qualities suggest that your child will probably achieve success in studies, and later in fields related to investigation. (Various sources for the child’s horoscope)
They are ardent skeptics who must personally verify everything before believing or accepting it. However, once they have received proof, they retain their convictions, remaining faithful and devoted. Those born under this sign are true fighters. Their motto: “Meet force with force.” Such children never cry when injured or hurt – they dislike showing weakness. Clenching their teeth, they stare defiantly at their opponent, thinking: “Just you wait, I’ll get you back.” Scorpio children are vengeful, so it’s essential to teach the child to forgive and forget grievances as early as possible. Explain that hostile feelings toward others ultimately do no good to himself. Scorpio belongs to the energetically strong signs of the Zodiac, if not the strongest. How he will use this strength – for good or for evil – is determined primarily by upbringing in early childhood. It is especially important for parents to help the child identify and understand true spiritual values. When energy is directed toward positive aspirations, Scorpio can help others realign themselves. Developing discernment – that is the wise support such children truly need.
These children do not accept half-hearted decisions or compromises. For them, there is only black or white, angel or devil. This character is defined by their element. Scorpio is a fixed water sign. For example, Jonas Salk, the physician who developed the polio vaccine, was a Scorpio who used his strength for good, while Charles Manson, the maniacal murderer, was a Scorpio who directed all his energy toward evil.
The symbols associated with Scorpio best reflect the various aspects of his nature; he is the only sign with three distinct symbols. The first is the scorpion, which restrains its emotions and possesses an indestructible survival instinct. Yet it may sting itself if no other opponent is present. The second is the eagle, representing the heights that Scorpio children are capable of reaching. The third is the Phoenix, rising from the ashes. Transformation is indeed the key word for Scorpios. Everyone born under this sign must “die” and “be reborn” at various points along life’s path in order to fulfill their destined purpose. Scorpio must subordinate his ego, his personality, to spirit and direct all his forces toward serving the world. Children born under the sign of Scorpio should read about the role of personality in world history – about wise rulers and cruel tyrants. This will help the child understand the importance of choosing a life path and following high ideals. Scorpios produce both highly remarkable individuals and the most sophisticated criminals. Indeed, born under this sign were Theodore Roosevelt, Picasso, John Philip Sousa (1), Marie Curie, Nehru, Martin Luther, Daniel Boone (2)!
1 Sousa, John Philip (1854–1932) – American composer, known as the “March King.” In 1892, he founded his own band in Washington. One of the founders of the American opera genre, many elements of which later evolved into musicals. (Ed. note)
2 Daniel Boone (1734–1820) – American pioneer. (Ed. note)
In the human body, Scorpio rules the reproductive organs. This explains why such children possess such fiery energy. They have the ability to quickly restore physical and mental strength. Scorpios emerge unscathed from situations that would be destructive for others. For them, crises only add strength. Those born under this sign are full of courage and bravery. They neither understand nor accept the weak or fearful. These children move toward the unknown, burning with passion and enthusiasm. Danger only spurs them on.
Most Scorpios desire popularity and great achievements.
Many believe Scorpios cannot be truly known, so secretive are they. Yet they possess strong psychic abilities and know how to look deeply, so little can escape their inquisitive gaze. Parents, it’s futile to hide the truth from these children! They seek, and usually succeed in obtaining, truthful answers to all their questions. Scorpio children have a special talent in this regard. Be prepared when raising your little Scorpio: you must carefully consider each situation before taking action. When making plans, always consult the child for advice and cooperation; do not attempt to lecture him. Never refuse the child’s help. Remember, your prohibition will provoke a negative reaction in the little Scorpio – a desire to do something spitefully.
These children are highly emotional and experience life very intensely. One of the main lessons necessary for a little Scorpio is learning to separate his thoughts and feelings from objective reality. This skill will serve him throughout life. The danger here is that uncontrolled emotions lead to even greater suffering and, ultimately, may result in psychological disorders (similar to how a scorpion stings itself). Children born under this sign have a sharp mind, a venomous tongue, and a tendency toward sarcasm. The child must be taught that his words can sometimes cause deep hurt. If empathy and humility are instilled early, all his thoughts and feelings will rise to a higher level, ensuring success. It is very wise to teach the little Scorpio the law of cause and effect: “As you sow, so shall you reap,” or “What goes around comes around.” Such teaching will help the child become kinder, more sensitive, and more tolerant. Teach the child to “turn the other cheek” – he must learn to control his vengefulness. The earlier the child absorbs these lessons, the easier it will be for him to cleanse his soul of the poison inherent to Scorpios.
And finally, these children, like scorpions, are always ready to defend themselves. It is pointless to try to deceive them, mislead them, or use them for your own purposes. Communicate with your child honestly, with an open heart. If he senses in you an ally, his strength will be your protection, and his loyalty your support.
(Samantha Davis. Child Astrology: The Key to Understanding a Child’s Psychology.)
