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Let me begin the topic of astrological correction of child-rearing based on their temperament, which can be done using astropsychological methods.
In astrology, there is such a field as astropsychology, which is a combination of psychological techniques and astrological analysis. An astrologer determines a child’s temperament based on the dominant elements in their horoscope and can quickly provide practical recommendations to parents on raising their child, which is especially important when parents and their children have different temperaments. Otherwise, the “parents and children” conflict is inevitable.
Temperament is a physiological parameter, and depending on it, we are more or less patient, more or less conflict-prone, and more or less receptive to the opinions of others. Therefore, this topic is quite important and effective precisely in resolving conflict situations in the family, at work, and in relation to the education of children of preschool age.
Today, let’s talk about those children whose horoscopes have most of their planets in the fire signs of the Zodiac: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius. I would like to remind you that a horoscope consists of ten planets, which is something most people are unaware of. For this reason, you may, for example, be Gemini or Pisces, but have the majority of planets in your personal horoscope in fire positions. In that case, this description will apply to you. To find out in detail which element predominates in your horoscope, you can consult a properly compiled natal chart.
Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius correspond to the choleric temperament, and with a clear predominance of the fire element in the horoscope, they are pronounced extroverts. Please keep this in mind, because if you yourself are fire and choleric, while your child or partner is water (Cancer, Scorpio, or Pisces) and melancholic, then in critical situations, it may be very difficult to reach an understanding.
So, in astrology, fire is associated with the extroverted personality type—loud and dynamic people, restless children. With such kids, and later with adults, it is very important to learn to speak their language. Otherwise, it will be impossible to convey information effectively or for it to be absorbed. Present information to fire types in short sentences, pause frequently, and at the end, be sure to summarize everything said. Be prepared for the fact that when listening to instructions, a fire type will often interrupt you. They do this unconsciously—because they fear forgetting their brilliant ideas that come to mind during the conversation. Therefore, you should react to interruptions calmly, as the child doesn’t even notice that they are breaking the rules of communication with adults. Oh, and they will certainly test your patience!
As you probably already know, fire people are incapable of long, monotonous work; they struggle to complete tasks that require patience and prolonged concentration. Their psyche is not inclined toward this. This skill is developed only through years of effort and perseverance, and it should be cultivated purposefully rather than left to chance. And this, I agree, is entirely and completely the parents’ responsibility. It is better to engage with these children in a playful manner and absolutely not leave them alone from start to finish to complete a task, relying on their sense of responsibility. The result will be—at best—a half-finished task. This rule also applies to adult fire types: the more interesting and concise the material presented, the greater the chance it will be absorbed.
In elementary school, such children find it difficult to sit through an entire lesson. So, dear parents, prepare yourselves for initial complaints from teachers and the whims of your schoolchild.
If you still need to give your child an important task, try breaking it down into small parts, and for each mini-task, you will have to demand a report and check the completed work. Otherwise, the desired result will not be achieved. And the child is not to blame here—due to innate psychological traits, it is almost impossible for them to concentrate on one thing for long periods.
Fire people also absolutely cannot tolerate uncertainty in any form and will strive to eliminate it by all means possible. In adults, this behavioral pattern often causes many problems in relationships. In children, it shapes unconventional behavior and provides great prerequisites for creative activity.
So, if you come home late and find that your favorite curtains have been transformed in places into doll dresses, don’t get angry with your child—by being late, you forced them to find a way out of an uncertain situation. And, as a rule, fire children quickly figure out where and how they can find such a solution. They are idea generators and simply cannot stand boredom!
If you feel like scolding or simply expressing justified criticism, keep in mind that they take criticism very poorly and react sharply to any remarks directed at them. So, be tactful in what and how you say things. No emotional reproaches—only logical and well-founded facts. Otherwise, you risk provoking a wave of fierce protest or an emotional backlash. In conflict, fire people mirror their partner and, more than other elements, are prone to rough and emotionally scorching forms of communication. After all, it is fire. Therefore, it is better to control such an adult, for example, not verbally but in writing.
For the sake of fairness, I must note that the fire type is very resilient to creative stress and excels in group activities when there is a shared goal. Even in childhood, they are not afraid of workloads, cope well with them when personally interested, and enjoy working in team settings.
